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Self-reflection assessment

How Curious Are You?

Discover where your curiosity goes first.

Curiosity is one of the greatest gifts we have: the instinct to look just beyond the obvious and find something new. But we don’t all express our curiosity and explore the world in the same way. Some of us seek knowledge and understanding of how things work. Some of us thrive on novelty, energy, and ideas. And some lead with people, emotion, and connection.

This short reflection helps you notice where your curiosity goes first in your work. It outlines 16 situations you’ll face in your work. For each one, you’ll be given three ways you could focus your attention. Just pick the one that most reflects your typical approach. Of course, in many situations you might be drawn to more than one, but the task is still to pick the one that pulls you most. There are no right or wrong answers in this self-reflection. Just go with what you naturally do, and at the end, we will break down what this means for your work and development.

Question 1 · Discovery

Imagine you’re in a first discovery meeting with a new client, someone you’ve never met before. You’ve been brought in to help improve how their organisation runs, perhaps to work out why projects keep running late. There’s a lot you could ask about in that first hour.

I’m most drawn to:

Question 2 · Meeting someone new

You’re a few weeks into a project and one of the client’s senior managers suggests grabbing a coffee, just the two of you. It’s the first time you’ve had them to yourself.

I’m most drawn to finding out:

Question 3 · Research

A potential client has asked you for a proposal and you have a week to prepare. You’ve cleared your diary and you’ve got a blank page in front of you. Think about where your attention naturally goes first.

I’m most drawn to:

Question 4 · When things go wrong

You’re halfway through a project and it’s starting to go wrong. Deadlines are slipping, the client is getting twitchy, and the team can feel it. Think about what you’d be most curious about, not what you’d do to fix it.

I’m most drawn to:

Question 5 · Being challenged

You’ve presented a set of findings that you and the whole team know are correct, and the client pushes back on them in the room. It’s not a calm disagreement either: there’s a clear emotional reaction. Think here not about what you would do, but about what you’d be most curious to ask.

I’m most drawn to:

Question 6 · In the room

You’re running a workshop and, just after lunch, the energy drains out of the room. People are checking phones, the discussion has gone flat, and you can feel it slipping. Think about what you’d be most curious about, not what you’d do to fix it.

I’m most drawn to:

Question 7 · The brief

A client brief lands in your inbox. You read it twice and something doesn’t quite add up: the problem they’ve described and the solution they’re asking for don’t seem to belong together. Think about where your curiosity goes first.

I’m most drawn to:

Question 8 · New territory

You’ve recently moved teams, and the sector you’re now working in is completely new to you. You’ve got two weeks before the kick-off meeting. Think about where your curiosity goes first.

I’m most drawn to:

Question 9 · Evidence

You’re working through the analysis late one afternoon and the numbers are clear: they contradict something the client has believed, and shared widely, for years. Nobody else has seen this yet. It’s just you and the spreadsheet. Think about where your curiosity goes first.

I’m most drawn to:

Question 10 · Presenting

You’re about to present your findings to the client’s leadership team. You’ve got forty minutes and it’s a busy room. Think about what you’d most want them to walk out with, not what’s on the slides.

I’m most drawn to them leaving with:

Question 11 · The team

You’re in a team meeting, working through the approach for a client project, and a colleague you respect disagrees with you. Not rudely, but firmly, and in front of the rest of the team. Think about what you’d be most curious about, not how you’d respond.

I’m most drawn to:

Question 12 · Stuck

It’s Thursday afternoon and you’ve been staring at the same piece of client work for two days. You’ve tried the obvious things and none of them have moved it on. Think about where your curiosity naturally goes when you’re stuck, not what you think you should do.

I’m most drawn to:

Question 13 · Not knowing

You’re in a meeting and the client asks you a direct question. You don’t know the answer, and everyone’s looking at you. Think about where your curiosity goes in that moment, not how you’d handle it.

I’m most drawn to:

Question 14 · “We’ve tried that”

You’ve just suggested an idea to a client and they wave it away with four words: “We’ve tried that before.” The conversation could easily move on. Think about what you’d be most curious about in that moment.

I’m most drawn to:

Question 15 · Change of direction

You’re halfway through a project and the client calls to say they’ve changed their mind about what they want. Not a small tweak, a proper change of direction. The work you’ve done so far may or may not still be useful. Think about what you’d be most curious about, not what you’d do about it.

I’m most drawn to:

Question 16 · Looking back

A major project is finished and the client is very happy. You have an unusually quiet day with no meetings in the diary. Think about where your mind naturally wanders when you look back.

I’m most drawn to:

Your results

Your tally

Your three scores

There are three forms of curiosity.

Epistemic curiosity is the pull towards understanding: facts, evidence, and how things work.

Diversive curiosity is the pull towards what’s new: exploring, trying a different way, and seeing what else is possible.

Empathetic curiosity is the pull towards people: what they think, how they feel, and why they see things the way they do.

We bring each of these to life below.

Each of your answers to the sixteen questions related to one of the three forms of curiosity. What is shared below isn’t a measure of how curious you are, but of where your curiosity tends to go first. A low score doesn’t mean you don’t care about that form of curiosity. It is more likely that you’re more interested in the other two.

As we cover in the learning about curiosity, the key begins with awareness. It’s fine to have a lower score in one form, so long as you know it. From there you have two options, and they work well together. You can start to build that form of curiosity so it’s there when you need it. And you can work alongside people who lead with it. Someone who is deeply empathetic, for example, has a real strength that nobody would want them to lose, and if their epistemic curiosity sits lower, they may simply need someone who’s good with data working beside them. Awareness first, then dig into the learning.

Based on your score, each of the three forms has been placed under one of four headings. Here’s what each of them means:

Your signature (11 to 16). A very high score, and a clear spike. This is the form of curiosity you lead with and the one people will notice in you. Because the three scores always add up to sixteen, a signature in one form means the other two will sit lower by default. That is not a problem. It is simply where your attention goes first.A clear focus (7 to 10). More than its fair share of your answers. A form you reach for often, though not always first.Balanced share (4 to 6). About a third of your answers. This form gets a fair hearing from you without taking over.In reserve (0 to 3). Available to you, but not where you go first. This is the form you will need to reach for on purpose.

You can explore more of what all this means, and how to develop all three forms, in the learning content for curiosity on the platform.

Epistemic
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Diversive
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Empathetic
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EpistemicBeing drawn to depth, knowledge and how things work
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DiversiveBeing drawn to novelty, breadth and new possibilities
–of 16 
EmpatheticBeing drawn to people, their feelings and perspectives
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What to do next

Think of the three forms as a tripod. If one leg is much shorter than the others, the whole thing wobbles, and it’s harder to get a clear picture. Whatever your scores, the form or forms you lean on are your edge, so never diminish them. The Curiosity dimension on our platform shows you how to nurture all three, in your work and in your life. Enjoy the self-discovery.

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