Self-reflection assessment
How Curious Are You?
Discover where your curiosity goes first.
Curiosity is one of the greatest gifts we have: the instinct to look just beyond the obvious and find something new. But we don’t all express our curiosity and explore the world in the same way. Some of us seek knowledge and understanding of how things work. Some of us thrive on novelty, energy, and ideas. And some lead with people, emotion, and connection.
This short reflection helps you notice where your curiosity goes first in your work. It outlines 16 situations you’ll face in your work. For each one, you’ll be given three ways you could focus your attention. Just pick the one that most reflects your typical approach. Of course, in many situations you might be drawn to more than one, but the task is still to pick the one that pulls you most. There are no right or wrong answers in this self-reflection. Just go with what you naturally do, and at the end, we will break down what this means for your work and development.
Question 1 · Discovery
Imagine you’re in a first discovery meeting with a new client, someone you’ve never met before. You’ve been brought in to help improve how their organisation runs, perhaps to work out why projects keep running late. There’s a lot you could ask about in that first hour.
I’m most drawn to:
Question 2 · Meeting someone new
You’re a few weeks into a project and one of the client’s senior managers suggests grabbing a coffee, just the two of you. It’s the first time you’ve had them to yourself.
I’m most drawn to finding out:
Question 3 · Research
A potential client has asked you for a proposal and you have a week to prepare. You’ve cleared your diary and you’ve got a blank page in front of you. Think about where your attention naturally goes first.
I’m most drawn to:
Question 4 · When things go wrong
You’re halfway through a project and it’s starting to go wrong. Deadlines are slipping, the client is getting twitchy, and the team can feel it. Think about what you’d be most curious about, not what you’d do to fix it.
I’m most drawn to:
Question 5 · Being challenged
You’ve presented a set of findings that you and the whole team know are correct, and the client pushes back on them in the room. It’s not a calm disagreement either: there’s a clear emotional reaction. Think here not about what you would do, but about what you’d be most curious to ask.
I’m most drawn to:
Question 6 · In the room
You’re running a workshop and, just after lunch, the energy drains out of the room. People are checking phones, the discussion has gone flat, and you can feel it slipping. Think about what you’d be most curious about, not what you’d do to fix it.
I’m most drawn to:
Question 7 · The brief
A client brief lands in your inbox. You read it twice and something doesn’t quite add up: the problem they’ve described and the solution they’re asking for don’t seem to belong together. Think about where your curiosity goes first.
I’m most drawn to:
Question 8 · New territory
You’ve recently moved teams, and the sector you’re now working in is completely new to you. You’ve got two weeks before the kick-off meeting. Think about where your curiosity goes first.
I’m most drawn to:
Question 9 · Evidence
You’re working through the analysis late one afternoon and the numbers are clear: they contradict something the client has believed, and shared widely, for years. Nobody else has seen this yet. It’s just you and the spreadsheet. Think about where your curiosity goes first.
I’m most drawn to:
Question 10 · Presenting
You’re about to present your findings to the client’s leadership team. You’ve got forty minutes and it’s a busy room. Think about what you’d most want them to walk out with, not what’s on the slides.
I’m most drawn to them leaving with:
Question 11 · The team
You’re in a team meeting, working through the approach for a client project, and a colleague you respect disagrees with you. Not rudely, but firmly, and in front of the rest of the team. Think about what you’d be most curious about, not how you’d respond.
I’m most drawn to:
Question 12 · Stuck
It’s Thursday afternoon and you’ve been staring at the same piece of client work for two days. You’ve tried the obvious things and none of them have moved it on. Think about where your curiosity naturally goes when you’re stuck, not what you think you should do.
I’m most drawn to:
Question 13 · Not knowing
You’re in a meeting and the client asks you a direct question. You don’t know the answer, and everyone’s looking at you. Think about where your curiosity goes in that moment, not how you’d handle it.
I’m most drawn to:
Question 14 · “We’ve tried that”
You’ve just suggested an idea to a client and they wave it away with four words: “We’ve tried that before.” The conversation could easily move on. Think about what you’d be most curious about in that moment.
I’m most drawn to:
Question 15 · Change of direction
You’re halfway through a project and the client calls to say they’ve changed their mind about what they want. Not a small tweak, a proper change of direction. The work you’ve done so far may or may not still be useful. Think about what you’d be most curious about, not what you’d do about it.
I’m most drawn to:
Question 16 · Looking back
A major project is finished and the client is very happy. You have an unusually quiet day with no meetings in the diary. Think about where your mind naturally wanders when you look back.
I’m most drawn to:
Your results
Your tally
Your three scores
There are three forms of curiosity.
Epistemic curiosity is the pull towards understanding: facts, evidence, and how things work.
Diversive curiosity is the pull towards what’s new: exploring, trying a different way, and seeing what else is possible.
Empathetic curiosity is the pull towards people: what they think, how they feel, and why they see things the way they do.
We bring each of these to life below.
Each of your answers to the sixteen questions related to one of the three forms of curiosity. What is shared below isn’t a measure of how curious you are, but of where your curiosity tends to go first. A low score doesn’t mean you don’t care about that form of curiosity. It is more likely that you’re more interested in the other two.
As we cover in the learning about curiosity, the key begins with awareness. It’s fine to have a lower score in one form, so long as you know it. From there you have two options, and they work well together. You can start to build that form of curiosity so it’s there when you need it. And you can work alongside people who lead with it. Someone who is deeply empathetic, for example, has a real strength that nobody would want them to lose, and if their epistemic curiosity sits lower, they may simply need someone who’s good with data working beside them. Awareness first, then dig into the learning.
Based on your score, each of the three forms has been placed under one of four headings. Here’s what each of them means:
You can explore more of what all this means, and how to develop all three forms, in the learning content for curiosity on the platform.
Epistemic curiosity is the hunger to understand: to know how something works, why it is the way it is, and what sits underneath the surface. It’s the form of curiosity that builds real expertise, because it turns information into understanding, and it’s what lets you give advice that still holds up when someone challenges it.
A score in this range means understanding for its own sake isn’t where your curiosity goes first. You’d sooner try something (diversive curiosity), or talk it through (empathetic curiosity), than read the manual, and that keeps you moving and keeps the work human. It doesn’t mean you can’t go deep; it means you tend not to unless something makes you.
The cost is that you can find yourself acting on a picture of how things work that you haven’t checked, and being caught out later by a fact that was there all along.
In client work, watch for briefs you’ve accepted at face value and numbers you’ve taken on trust. When something matters, go and look: ask the basic question, read the source rather than the summary, and follow the answer one step further than feels necessary. You’ll miss less, and the detail will change your advice more often than you expect.
Epistemic curiosity is the hunger to understand: to know how something works, why it is the way it is, and what sits underneath the surface. It’s the form of curiosity that builds real expertise, because it turns information into understanding, and it’s what lets you give advice that still holds up when someone challenges it.
A score in this range means understanding takes about a third of your curiosity, which is its fair share. You’ll dig into the detail when it matters and leave a question open when there’s somewhere better to be. That flexibility is useful, because not every problem deserves a deep dive.
The risk is that depth is the easiest thing to skip when time is short, and a client problem can look simpler than it is until somebody reads the numbers properly.
In client work, watch for the moment when a decision really depends on the detail and you’re tempted to move on with a picture you haven’t checked. When that happens, slow down and go further than feels necessary: read the source document, check the numbers yourself, and ask the question nobody else has asked.
Epistemic curiosity is the hunger to understand: to know how something works, why it is the way it is, and what sits underneath the surface. It’s the form of curiosity that builds real expertise, because it turns information into understanding, and it’s what lets you give advice that still holds up when someone challenges it.
A score in this range means understanding is where your curiosity goes more often than not. Faced with something new, your first move is usually to get to the bottom of it, and you’re comfortable sitting with a question until you feel like you have a sound and evidence-backed answer, which makes you the person clients trust to have properly understood their problem before offering a view.
It isn’t the only place your curiosity goes, which is a good thing: you can still be pulled by a fresh idea (diversive curiosity) or a conversation (empathetic curiosity). The shadow side is that under pressure you’ll default to gathering more, and there will be moments when one more fact is not what the client needs.
In client work, watch for the meeting where you’ve understood the process beautifully but haven’t yet asked how anyone feels about it, or floated an idea or option nobody has considered. When you catch yourself there, don’t wait for more evidence before you speak. Ask one person in the room what worries them about what you’ve found. Put one idea on the table that you haven’t fully tested, and say that it’s untested. You lose none of the understanding you’ve built, and the answers usually tell you which fact to go and find next.
Epistemic curiosity is the hunger to understand: to know how something works, why it is the way it is, and what sits underneath the surface. It’s the form of curiosity that builds real expertise, because it turns information into understanding, and it’s what lets you give advice that still holds up when someone challenges it.
With a score like this, understanding is where nearly all of your curiosity goes. You’ll stay with a question long after the conversation has moved on, you’re the one who has read the report in detail rather than the summary, and clients can tell when they’re talking to someone who has properly got to grips with their business.
The cost of that depth is time, and the world doesn’t always wait for you to finish understanding it. You may reach for one more piece of evidence when the moment called for a rough idea to try (diversive curiosity), or for a question about how the client feels rather than how their process works (empathetic curiosity).
In client work, watch for the point where thoroughness starts to delay the work. A client rarely needs you to be certain. They need to know where you’ve got to. So share your findings, your beliefs and your current position as you go, and say clearly how much evidence sits behind each one: this is established, this is a working theory, this is a hunch worth testing. Sharing an early view in that way builds trust rather than losing it, and the client can often help you find what you’re still looking for.
Diversive curiosity is the pull towards what’s new: the urge to explore, to try a different way, and to see what else is out there. It’s the form of curiosity that produces fresh ideas, and it’s what keeps a person, a team or a piece of client work from going stale.
A score in this range means the unknown holds less pull for you than the familiar. You’d rather explore something you already know and care about, and explore it properly (epistemic curiosity), than wander off to see what else is out there. That gives you consistency and makes you easy to rely on. It’s a preference, not a limit.
The cost is that the fresh angle tends to come from someone else, and a problem that needs a completely different approach can stay stuck for longer than it should.
In client work, watch for the recommendation that is a safer version of what the client already does, and for the moment a client says “we’ve tried that”. When you hear it, deliberately pick the option that has nothing to do with what you already know, follow it a little way, and see whether it opens something up. It usually costs less than you’d think.
Diversive curiosity is the pull towards what’s new: the urge to explore, to try a different way, and to see what else is out there. It’s the form of curiosity that produces fresh ideas, and it’s what keeps a person, a team or a piece of client work from going stale.
A score in this range means the new gets a fair hearing from you without running the show. You’ll try a different approach when the moment calls for it, you don’t feel the need to reinvent everything you touch, and you can move between ideas or stay with one as the situation asks. That makes you easy to work with.
The risk is that when a problem has gone stale, the familiar route can feel safer than the new one, and a client who wanted something fresh gets something sensible instead.
In client work, watch for the piece of work that is competent and correct but has nothing new in it. When you sense that, give yourself more room to explore than usual: look at how another sector handles the same problem, or put the unlikely option on the table and see what the conversation does with it.
Diversive curiosity is the pull towards what’s new: the urge to explore, to try a different way, and to see what else is out there. It’s the form of curiosity that produces fresh ideas, and it’s what keeps a person, a team or a piece of client work from going stale.
A score in this range means the new has a strong pull on you, without being the whole story. Given a problem you’d rather try several ways at it than commit to one, and you’re rarely the person saying “we’ve always done it this way”, which is a real asset in a room that has run out of ideas.
Because other forms of curiosity still get a look in, you can also go deep (epistemic curiosity) or ask for someone’s view (empathetic curiosity) when it’s needed. The shadow side is that you can end up with too many ideas open at once, and the client gets breadth when they needed depth.
In client work, watch for the proposal that offers a list of options where the client wanted a recommendation. When you catch yourself there, choose one route, explain why, and check with the client that it’s one they can actually live with.
Diversive curiosity is the pull towards what’s new: the urge to explore, to try a different way, and to see what else is out there. It’s the form of curiosity that produces fresh ideas, and it’s what keeps a person, a team or a piece of client work from going stale.
With a score like this, novelty is where nearly all of your curiosity goes. Your instinct with a problem is to try a few things and see what happens, you’re quick to spot how an idea from another sector might apply here, and you’re the one who gets a stuck conversation moving again. Clients will value you for the suggestion nobody else would have made.
The cost of ranging so widely is that finishing can feel like a chore, going deep into one thing (epistemic curiosity) can feel like standing still, and slowing down to find out what someone else thinks (empathetic curiosity) can feel like a detour.
In client work, watch for the moment when you’re on to the next idea while the client is still taking in the last one, and for the recommendation that is exciting but not yet backed by their numbers. When you notice it, pick one idea and stay with it long enough to test it properly. Then ask the client which of your suggestions they actually heard, and work with that one.
Empathetic curiosity is curiosity about people: what someone is really thinking, how something lands for them, and why they see it the way they do. It’s the form of curiosity that builds trust, and it’s what finds the gap between what a client asks for and what a client actually needs.
A score in this range means asking how other people see things isn’t your first instinct. Faced with something new, you’d rather understand it (epistemic curiosity) or try it (diversive curiosity) than find out how it sits with someone, and that makes you quick and self-sufficient. There’s no lack of care in this; it’s simply a question you’re not in the habit of asking.
The cost is that you can learn what somebody thought about a decision after it’s been made rather than before, and a client can feel processed rather than understood.
In client work, watch for the recommendation that is right on paper but lands badly, and for the stakeholder who has gone quiet. When something matters, find out how one other person sees it before you decide, ask what they’re worried about, and notice how often the answer changes what you would have done.
Empathetic curiosity is curiosity about people: what someone is really thinking, how something lands for them, and why they see it the way they do. It’s the form of curiosity that builds trust, and it’s what finds the gap between what a client asks for and what a client actually needs.
A score in this range means people get a real share of your curiosity, though not the whole of it. You’ll ask how something feels for someone when it matters and listen to the answer, and you don’t need every problem to become a conversation. That is a practical way to be.
The risk is that curiosity about people is easy to set aside when a situation looks like a technical one, and some situations are more sensitive than they look.
In client work, watch for the early meetings when you’re getting to know someone and your instinct is to offer a fact or a fix, and for the moment when resistance in the room is being treated as a logic problem. When you notice either, spend more curiosity on the person than usual: ask what is worrying them about this, and wait for the real answer.
Empathetic curiosity is curiosity about people: what someone is really thinking, how something lands for them, and why they see it the way they do. It’s the form of curiosity that builds trust, and it’s what finds the gap between what a client asks for and what a client actually needs.
A score in this range means a good deal of your curiosity goes towards people. When you’re working something out, your instinct is to talk it over and see how someone else reads it, and you pick up quickly on what’s going on beneath the surface of a conversation. That makes you good company in a hard meeting.
Because it isn’t the whole of your curiosity, you can still switch to the facts (epistemic curiosity) or the fresh idea (diversive curiosity) when the moment needs them. The shadow side is that you’ll sometimes go looking for a person’s view when what was needed was a fact or a new idea, and that a strong sense of the client’s mood can become a reason not to say something uncomfortable.
In client work, watch for the recommendation you’ve held back because of how it might land. When you catch yourself there, say it anyway, kindly. Use your feel for people to choose the words, not to decide whether to speak.
Empathetic curiosity is curiosity about people: what someone is really thinking, how something lands for them, and why they see it the way they do. It’s the form of curiosity that builds trust, and it’s what finds the gap between what a client asks for and what a client actually needs.
With a score like this, other people are where nearly all of your curiosity goes. You’ll stay with the question of how someone feels for as long as it takes, you notice what wasn’t said, and you read the room before anyone has spoken. That is why clients tend to feel understood around you, and why they tell you things they haven’t told anyone else.
The cost is that how people feel isn’t always the whole story. Sometimes the problem really is in the mechanics (epistemic curiosity), and sometimes the answer is an idea nobody in the room has had yet (diversive curiosity).
In client work, watch for the meeting where everyone feels heard and the decision still hasn’t been made, and for advice you’ve softened so much that the point gets lost. When you notice it, turn from the person to the problem: check the numbers, or put a bold idea on the table, and trust that the relationship is strong enough to take it.
What to do next
Think of the three forms as a tripod. If one leg is much shorter than the others, the whole thing wobbles, and it’s harder to get a clear picture. Whatever your scores, the form or forms you lean on are your edge, so never diminish them. The Curiosity dimension on our platform shows you how to nurture all three, in your work and in your life. Enjoy the self-discovery.
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